You or your partner want to try some chill date ideas, but what does a “chill” date even mean? The definition may vary among people, but in general, a chill date is a low-energy, low-pressure date that feels more like hanging out with a good friend.
Chill dates are a great way for new partners to get to know each other, but they’re also useful for committed couples to relax and unwind together.
If you’re wondering, “What is a low key date?” or “What can I do for a relaxing date night?” we’ve got you covered with this list of relaxing and creative chill date ideas.
Low Key Date Ideas
Take a walk.
Outdoor dates are always a hit and going for a walk with your crush is one of our favorites. It’s relaxing and if you choose the right route, it can be beautiful too. Don’t worry if it’s cold out, instead bring a flask of coffee or hot chocolate to keep you warm.
Feeling adventurous? Why not opt for a hike together instead? Hiking a mountain can feel really rewarding.
Go on a virtual city tour.
Virtual dates became the norm throughout the pandemic and are still just as popular as we move back to normality. Chat with your date as you go and exchange travel stories about places you’ve been to and where you’d love to go next. It’s a great icebreaker and a fun way to get to know each other!
Enjoy a drink (or two).
Going for a drink together is a classic first date for a reason. It’s intimate, informal, and a great way to test the waters. Mix things up by choosing a bar that serves unique drinks or keep things simple by bringing your date to your local bar.
If all goes well, you can stay out all night chatting. And if you two don’t hit it off, you can call it quits without having to endure a whole day of awkward silence.
Go cycling.
When it comes to low-key first date ideas, going cycling together is always a winner. Sure, there’s not a lot of talking involved in a bike ride, but it’s still a great bonding experience. And, if you suffer from first date nerves, the lack of speaking might be a big plus.
Make stops en route to soak up the scenery or take pictures of each other in the heart of nature. Better yet? Framing one of these photos down the line can make for a great gift idea if the relationship continues.
Try volunteering.
Have you seen our Random Acts of Kindness Deck? Kindness is something that most people value in a partner. So why not get your relationship off to a good start by being kind and volunteering together?
Talk to your crush about the causes they’re passionate about. Maybe you’ll find you share the same ones. Then contact a charity that supports your chosen cause. Chances are they’ll be delighted to have some extra help. You could visit an animal shelter, help out at a soup kitchen, or join a beach clean-up together.
Watch a concert.
If you’re searching for low-key first date ideas that have zero awkward silences, then why not watch a concert together? Ask your crush about their favorite musicians, maybe you have some in common. Then purchase tickets to their next concert and voila, you have your first date booked.
Take a class together.
Learning a new skill can take your mind off feeling nervous because it encourages you to live in the moment. That’s why taking a class together is one of our top low-key first date ideas.
If you’re a pro in the kitchen, why not opt for a cooking class? Or show your crush your creative side by attending an art workshop. There are also endless classes for you to try, so you’ll never run out of options!
Watch the sunset.
If you’re looking for low-key first date ideas that are romantic, this could be the one for you! Pack a picnic and head somewhere with a good view to watch the sunset or sunrise.
Cuddle on a blanket to keep warm and appreciate the beauty that surrounds you. If you feel like it, strike up a meaningful conversation or two. This setting is the perfect backdrop for it.
Explore a local town.
You may have lived in your town or city for years, but that doesn’t mean you’ve seen all the sights! Find out what tourist attractions are nearby and go check them out with your date.
From museums to art galleries and parks, there are tons of hidden gems for you to explore.
Go thrift store shopping.
Do you love vintage fashion or antiques? Then give thrift store shopping a try.
Go to your local shopping district and explore some thrift stores with your date. You could even spice things up by purchasing gifts for each other. Since thrift stores are pretty reasonable, it’s a great date for when you’re on a budget too.
Watch a comedy show.
You know how people say that laughter is the best medicine? Well when you’re on a first date, it can be your BFF, too. That’s why watching a comedy show is one of our ultimate low-key first date ideas.
Keep things simple and pop by your local open mic or if your favorite comedian is coming to town, book tickets to go see them instead! Either way, a night of laughter is guaranteed.
First dates can be daunting, but they don’t have to be. The trick is to keep things simple and to do something you enjoy. That way you can focus on each other.
So next time you have a date coming up, choose one of our terrific low-key first date ideas.
Date Deck® and Hack Decks™
Date Deck® is a 52-card prompt deck. It suggests and creates interesting and fun date adventures to do together for a weekend or week night date.
As in every relationship, each person has different strengths. Typically, it becomes the responsibility of one partner to coordinate something fun, hoping to get the other partner to buy in. You want the other partner to be excited about the adventure you have created for date night.
Date Deck® makes planning a fun date easier than ever before. Just pick a card from the 52-deck of cards and let the Date Deck® card guide you. It will take you, for example, to a new date destination or spark your adventure for that perfect winter or summer date night. Whether the prompt card motivates you to go beer or wine tasting, see live music, or try something that scares you, Date Deck® strengthens your connection as a couple. And it will nurture your growth.