Dinner and a movie are dependable for a reason, but every couple needs a change of scenery sometimes. Research indexed by PubMed found that couples who shared novel, engaging activities reported better relationship quality than those who completed a familiar task.
Cities have really grown in their capacity to offer truly unique experiences. If you don't live in an urban or metropolitan area you can still have a different kind of date locally. When you're trying to get to know someone, you may want an experience that feels natural, like taking a class together or trying a new activity. You'll both be out of your comfort zones, and you won't fall into those conversational clichés that leave you looking around the restaurant for an escape route.
Even if the date doesn't work out, you get to have the new experience together regardless of the outcome. More than anything, though, the odds of the date working out increase when you get to know a person by putting them in a situation they may not be used to, like cycling or going to an arcade.
Here are a few unique date night ideas to try. As a first date, they take the stress out of thinking of things to say after the introductions have faded.
1. Visit an art gallery
Whether you're a true art buff or just along for the ride, this one's a great quiet place for both of you to gauge each other's interests and conversational skills. Choose a fun, exciting gallery or photo exhibit that's not too obscure if you're anxious about not having enough time to talk about it. Then go grab a bite afterward and discuss what you loved about the exhibit.
2. Shop at a thrift store
Hit up your local a thrift store and give each other 30 minutes or so to find the craziest outfits for each other to wear to dinner right after. The winner gets to choose where you'll dine later, so make sure to go all out. And it's an inexpensive start to what can continue to be an inexpensive dinner, should you choose. This is great for a couple on a budget.
3. Take a cooking class
You'll know right away if the relationship stands a chance once you find out who's better in the kitchen. Just go in with the right attitude: be willing to have fun, make a mess, and laugh. You'll have a blast. And it may encourage you to attend another type of class, such as a mixology class that teaches you to make fun and unique cocktails.
4. Ride bikes
Get some fresh air and ride bikes together. It's the perfect intro to part two of your date: a picnic in the park, where you can sit down, relax, and enjoy each other's company. And the food will be worth it, because you've exercised! This is a great afternoon date. Maybe bike to a farmer's market to get easy-to-eat or prepared foods for your picnic.
5. Go to a furniture store
We know what you're thinking..."Why would I go to a furniture store?" But this isn't just any old furniture store. It's a furniture store! No one has ever sighed before telling someone they were making their merry way to the famous Swedish furniture store. Also, it has a food court with some incredible cake, which is great after a day full of picking out your dream space.
6. Walk around the zoo
Show off your knowledge of your favorite animals at your local zoo. Not only is it a sure way to get your steps in, but it's a fun way to spend the time outdoors. Plus, you can always use the excuse of the chilly penguin house to cuddle up to your date.
Keep a Few Fresh Ideas Ready
You do not need an elaborate plan every week. Save a few ideas that fit different budgets, energy levels, and weather. For more options, browse these adventurous date ideas and choose the one that sounds fun today.
Date Deck® includes 52 prompts for couples who want to spend time together without spending the afternoon planning it. Pick a card, make any adjustments you need, and go enjoy the date.
